Report TWO from India/Sri Lanka January 27, 2012
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Life has been good seems last report, everything from enjoyment to sometimes working. It`s strange, all of those Lankesian people we have been talking to have told that there was over 50.000 people killed by the Tsunami. I cannot remember that I found that big amount reported by the media. But all was so concentrated to Thailand and the worse places in Indonesia. I have never had this experience before in any country, that I have visited and they are many – We have already during this so fare short time in Sri Lanka, been invited to people’s homes by three persons. Next Sunday we will visit a man’s home appr. 50 km from our gest house. We will travel together with him by train.
Now will many of you say; of-course the like to have you as guests in their homes, they try to get high benefits from it. Maybe maybe not, how many of us, never have an hidden agenda for what we are doing? However we all made our own decision upon what is driven us and we are sure there will be a good win-win situation, for all of us in the end. Please do not forget that fear is something that many of us are driven by.
Now it´s time for me to stop, the time is 6.30 am and I am sitting on our balcony and are looking at a beautiful Indian Ocean. Soon it will to warm for to take our walk through the jungle to the beautiful and peaceful Jungle Beach. We will be guided by an old man we meat while we made a walk.
Talk to people and you will find that you get many opportunities; the problem is to catch them.
Report ONE from India/Sri Lanka January 22, 2012
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After spending three whole days in Mumbai, this incredible big city. I can tell you this because I have been in Tokyo, but this must be bigger, It took more than two hours to go from the mid of the city to the south and it was not when the traffic was as worse.
Can you belive that there are a long and wide sandy beach a little bit north from the mid of the city. When we visited it, it was packed with bathing and relaxing Indians and they ws really bathing. We didn´t even consider to walk at the water edge, and we didn´t saw any western people for the two hours we spend there. I think that they are bathing in this water because they are not aware of anything else.
When we came to Mumbai International airport, there was a total caos, few was trying to remain in the ques, but most of the crowed was not and I can tell that if it should be in any other country, there would have been a huge figth.
Now we are in Sri Lanka and both me and my wife didn´t expect that it should big difference between India and Sri Lanka. But we find it very much cleaner, the people seems to be more careful of being gentle, even if we find Indians as gentle. It is a little bit more expensive, maybe it can be compared to Thailand. I and Tina both consider Sri Lanka as a kind of mix between India and Thailand.
At the moment we are in the very south of Sri Lanka at a small beutiful place called Unawatuna close to Galle. It has one of the best beaches I have seen and I have seen many.
This will be my combined working place and relaxing for the next twelve days.
I will soon be back with more.
Back in India January 17, 2012
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Now my and my wife Tina are back in India again and right now in Mumbai. Tomorrow we leave for Sri Lanka an will stay there for two weeks. After that we go back to India again and will stay in the very south of Goa and their suroundings.
I Will replace my normal text into reports from our journey, but probably they will be filled by attitude and personal development, it is hard to avoid when travelling in this part of our world.
I fell priviliged to be able to do my profession anywhere in the world and I can promisse you that it is worth to stirve for.
Keys how to create WIN-WIN Situations. January 11, 2012
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- Write down at least five situations or agreements in which know for sure that you not have acted upon WIN-Win.
- Write down at least five situations or agreements in which know for sure that you have acted upon WIN-Win.
- Write down at least five where you not yourself have got a WIN-WIN situation.
- And do the same with situations you got it.
- Now try to figure out why it has become the way it have in the first keys. Is there anything in common with them? You will probably find at least one or more and if you then go back into how you act in life, you will find why it is like this.
- Chose a conflict, it can be in the world or it can be in your everyday life, then write down five things that you think causes them. Then write down five things that you believe are the reason for them and how to solve them by thinking – WIN-WIN.
Please do not forget what like to get always depend on yourself, your attitude, to see other people and to see all of them that not get what they want and then to help them to achieve it.
If you like to achieve something you want, it is only for you to help enough other people to achieve theirs.
One of the greatest challenges within Personal Development. January 9, 2012
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It is not hard to know and how it shall be done or what it request and so on. But to take it in action when it is required, that is the great challenge. For example; to choose between to be a victim or to act upon responsibility, you can also say to chose between fear and love. It is quite obvious, even for all them that not engage themselves in personal development, to choose responsibility or love compared to be a victim. But when it really got to the edge and by that I mean you find yourselves in a hard situation, it can be very hard to make the right decision, which is responsibility. Unfortunately it seems to be more comfortable to choose victim at a short time base. But if you had chosen responsibility, you maybe have faced a short time problem, but you should have found a long term of satisfaction and now doubt of that. To choose victim is equal to `quick fix` and even if you are working on your personal development, you easily can show up in a situation where you choose to be victim.
We are all human, so in spite of that we work hard on our personal development, we sometimes make wrong decisions. I claim that there are non today living human that in every situations make the right decision. But the clue is to always fight to make the right decision and that is the key to your personal development.
Nobody is perfect, but is requested of to always try to be, if you want to claim that you are improving your personal development.
A good attitude is to go for efficiency, elegance and grace in your motions. January 4, 2012
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This I have picked out from the book Mastery written by George Leonard:
`Go for efficiency, elegance and grace in your motions; avoid hasty shortcuts. Rather than thinking about getting the job finished and going on to something else, stay wholly focused on the moment, on task and hand. Above all, do not hurry. You might discover that by not hurrying you will finish the dishes sooner than would ordinary be the case. the odds are good that you will feel better at the end.
Life is filled with opportunities for practicing the inexorable, unhurried rhythm of mastery, which focuses on process rather than product, yet which, paradoxically, often ends up creating more and better products in a shorter term than does the hurried, excessively goal-oriented rhythm habitual takes practice.`
I will also quote follow stated by the legendary Coach John Wooden at The University of Los Angeles and California, coaching the basket team that was the very best ever:
`Be quick, don´t hurry`.
Are you satisfied with your year 2011? January 1, 2012
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If not, you once again will get another possibility to make a new year into your best ever.
Is it not strange, this opportunity you have had so many times in your lives and exactly how many, are of course depending on your age. In spite of that, as many you have had, as fewer you got left until it will be ZERO.
Watch out that you take care of the new years that remains and that universe, the living intelligence, god or whatever you like to call it still gives you them. One New Year eve, or maybe it already have turned into New Year day, you sit there and cannot affect how your life will look like. You have reached the point in life, where there is not much left and your best days are fore sure behind you, you are not any longer possible to affect it.
Make YOUR 2012 to the best year ever in your life, if not, which of your remaining years will it be?
To all of you I wish a prosperous 2012.
To understand the strength in forgiving is a fantastic Attitude. December 30, 2011
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It is probably not many of you that on a regular basis follow my texts, that can have missed how important I find to forgive is and at the same time understand that you do it for your own sake, called it egoistic.
The reason for me to put this up again is that there are a murder in Sweden, that got in jail for lifetime seventeen years ago, for having killed ten persons. He has now got his punishment limited to twenty years, this mean that he will be free within three years. Before I continue, I will be absolutely clear about that I find his crime more awful and have absolutely no sympathy to words him or the crime he made. He deserve to have a very long punishment.
I heard on radio the news that his punishment was changed into a limit of twenty years and right after that there started an interview with a father who’s daughter was killed twenty and something years old. This was of course extremely painful to him, but I got a little surprised when I heard him say that it was a stroke to all who have got children killed. It was totally impossible for to ever forgive this killer, he had so far hated him extremely much and will remain that way the rest of his life. His life has been destroyed and now it will be even worse. It is totally impossible to forgive him, my life is ruined and now it will remain until I die, the father said.
My message to this hard affected father is: If he, as times goes bye ,could have getting himself and the rest of his family more of peace in mind by forgiving, he could have saved himself from all this pain and frustration. His loved daughter is dead and he cannot get her back, no matter how much hate and frustration he got towards this killer. This shall he only do for himself, not for giving the murder an easier life. I find it sad to realize that this father has found his life ruined for seventeen years and now it will be even worse. I will say that it all depends on that he have chosen not be able to forgive and by that got some kind of healing and peace in mind.
It seems to me that this father have reached the age of retirement, which mean that this will follow him to his death, with all this pain, frustration and so on. Is it really worth this very high price, he has already paid a tremendous high price by the lost of his daughter?
A gentle Christmas Greeting. December 24, 2011
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Right at this exact time of year we are supposed to be happy. It is amazing that we have chosen one single occasion to make it became reality.
The line between happiness and unhappiness is subtle; in fact it is the balance act of our life. Make it your Christmas mission or better, your life mission to help others to keep the balance.
Merry Christmas
Are you a giver o receiver? It is your attitude that determine. December 21, 2011
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What do I mean by to be a giver or receiver? If you are giver you often give away more than you receive and that can be many things as – love – help – money and much more. Considering this, you are a receiver if accept to receive more than you give away to others.
Which is the best to be? To me it has to do with attitude, some claim that they should receive more than they give; they feel that it´s fair, they deserve it. While others feels much better when they give away than takes, they feels better as human to share what they got.
What is the backslash of both? There are for certain many opinions, but to me the advantages to be a giver, is to feel that you are one of those that compensate for those who take and make a world worse . Many like to be takers, because then they have a surplus that make them comfort and secure, which they want to keep for themselves. The disadvantage will bet that they will be very lonely in their abundance and when they figure that out, it is too late and they will remain in their loneliness.
Your decision is up to yourself, but in the end you attitude will be critical.
